She Buys, She Decides: Retailers Must Rethink the Modern Woman Shopper
– By Ms. Gunjan Sapra, COO and Jewelry Design Dept Head, IIG
Everything we do in business; whether designing, marketing, or selling; must begin with one crucial question: Who are we making this for? In jewelry, this question extends beyond just the design process. It influences how we present, market, and sell our creations. Traditionally, jewelry advertising and sales strategies have been centered around gifting; directing messaging toward men as the buyers, with women positioned as the recipients.
Women as Active Decision-Makers in Jewellery Purchases
Being a woman myself, I take great pride in writing this… But let’s pause for a moment and acknowledge the reality of today’s marketplace. Women are no longer just recipients of fine jewelry; they are active decision-makers and self-purchasers.
The Outdated Approach to Jewellery Marketing
Gone are those days when a boardroom full of executives would gather to discuss a car commercial and unanimously agree that the ad should speak to men as the primary decision-makers. Shockingly, the same was true for jewelry marketing. Campaigns were designed to convince men to buy jewelry as a gift, reinforcing the idea that women were simply recipients. The focus was never on the woman as a buyer.
The Shift in Consumer Behavior
Fast forward to today, and this approach feels not just outdated, but out of touch with reality. Women are no longer waiting for special occasions or a partner’s approval to own fine jewelry. They are buying for themselves; whether to celebrate achievements, as an investment, or simply because they love it. This isn’t just a trend; it’s a fundamental shift in consumer behavior.
Rising Self-Purchase Trends
According to a 2023 TOI report, self-purchase trends for diamond jewelry have been rising across the US, China, and India:
- In the US, 31% of women who bought diamond jewelry in 2020 did so for themselves.
- In China, self-purchasing increased from 25% in 2019 to 33% in 2020.
- In India, the figure rose from 21% to 24% in just one year.
How Retailers Can Adapt to This Shift
1. Rethink How Sales Teams Approach Women Buyers
Women shopping for themselves often face outdated sales tactics. Instead of the usual, “Is this a gift?” retailers should train teams to ask:
- “What kind of jewelry do you enjoy wearing?”
- “Are you adding to your collection?”
- “What does this piece mean to you?”
This simple shift in language can make the difference between a forgettable transaction and an empowering shopping experience.
2. Elevate In-Store Experiences
Self-purchasing women want a seamless, indulgent shopping experience that feels personal:
- Offer private styling sessions to help them curate their jewelry wardrobe.
- Introduce customization services, such as engravings, to make purchases more personal.
Jewelry retail should feel like a celebration of self-expression, not just another store visit.
3. Scrap the “Gift-Only” Marketing Narrative
Jewelry campaigns should reflect today’s reality: women choosing and buying jewelry for themselves. Ads should feature:
- Women rewarding their achievements with a purchase.
- Jewelry as a smart investment, not just an accessory.
- Self-expression and personal milestones, rather than just romantic moments.
4. Leverage Data & AI to Personalize Shopping
Retailers who use data-driven personalization can better engage female buyers:
- AI-powered recommendations based on past purchases.
- Personalized offers on birthdays, promotions, and other significant milestones.
- Virtual try-ons and AR tech to enhance digital shopping experiences.
Women expect seamless, tech-enabled shopping, and brands that offer this will gain their loyalty.
The Future of Jewellery Retail Lies in Recognizing Women’s Buying Power
Women are not just wearing jewelry; they are choosing it, buying it, and investing in it. Retailers who fail to recognize this shift will soon find themselves losing relevance.
The choice is clear: Evolve or be left behind. Brands that embrace women as independent buyers won’t just sell more; they’ll build stronger, lasting relationships with the modern woman. And in today’s world, that relationship is worth more than gold.
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The International Institute of Gemology (IIG) is a leading institution dedicated to comprehensive gemological, diamond and jewellery designing – merchandising education. With a commitment to nurturing excellence, IIG has emerged as a global authority in gem education, research, and industry collaboration. Our curriculum covers gem identification, jewellery designing, management and industry best practices, Since 1965; IIG preparing students for successful careers in all the dynamic gems & Jewellery industry.
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